{"id":7126,"date":"2023-09-26T10:00:30","date_gmt":"2023-09-26T17:00:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/giftsblog.wpengine.com\/?p=7126"},"modified":"2023-11-02T10:32:19","modified_gmt":"2023-11-02T17:32:19","slug":"how-to-rsvp","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.gifts.com\/blog\/how-to-rsvp","title":{"rendered":"How to RSVP: Etiquette and Message Ideas"},"content":{"rendered":"

Let’s talk about those RSVP invitations that often end up as fridge decorations, collecting magnets and good intentions. It’s easy to put off dealing with them, but is it really no big deal to forget to RSVP? Well, not exactly. The reality is, RSVPs are a significant deal for the event host as they play a crucial role in planning and preparing for the right number of guests. In this post, we’ll share some invaluable tips on how to RSVP the right way.”<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

But let’s not stop at just RSVP etiquette. If you want to take your wedding guest game to the next level, consider bringing a <\/span>personalized gift<\/span><\/a> for the newlywed couple. While your presence at the wedding is a gift in itself, a thoughtful, customized token of your love and well wishes can truly make their day even more special. Whether it’s a photo frame with their names and wedding date, a monogrammed cutting board, or a piece of art that resonates with their journey, a personalized gift adds a unique touch to your wedding attendance and will be cherished for years to come.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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What does RSVP mean?<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/h4>\n

The term RSVP stands for the French phrase \u201cr\u00e9pondez s\u2019il vous pla\u00eet\u201d (please respond) and it\u2019s considered impolite to leave your hosts hanging. An RSVP is a polite request for you to inform the host whether or not you\u2019ll be attending their event so they can plan accordingly.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s important for the host to have attendance numbers so they can account for the amount of food needed and the seating arrangements. This will assure that everyone is comfortable and has a good time at the party.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

When should you RSVP by?<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/h4>\n

Many invitations include a \u201crespond by\u201d date, but it\u2019s best to reply as soon as possible. It\u2019s all too easy to let an RSVP slip your mind until it\u2019s too late. Responding early also shows enthusiasm and excitement about the event. If you aren\u2019t sure what your plans are, contact your hosts and let them know. They may be able to accommodate a \u201cmaybe\u201d for one or two guests.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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Types of RSVPs<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/h2>\n

Whether it is a formal invitation with an RSVP card or an informal invitation with reply instructions, make sure to respond in the manner indicated.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Mailed invitation with RSVP card<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Fill in the card and mail it back in the enclosed envelope before the date listed, or preferably as soon as you receive it. Check to see if the event allows a plus one. If it does, double check that your date can make it before you RSVP for them.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

How to fill out a wedding RSVP<\/h3>\n

Wedding invitations commonly include an RSVP card and a pre-addressed envelope. The card may be as simple as writing your name and checking off a plus one and dining choices, or it may include a bit more space for a thoughtful note. If there is blank space on the card you are expected to write a note.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

It is also common for a wedding RSVP card to include an \u201cM\u201d with a blank line after it. Following the \u201cM,\u201d you should write your title (Mr., Mrs., Miss) and name.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

If you are unsure if you can bring a plus one, look to the invitation envelope to see if \u201cand guest\u201d is clearly stated. Asking to bring a guest if the wedding invitation doesn\u2019t explicitly say that you can is considered inappropriate. It may cause a strain on the happy couple\u2019s finances.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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Telephone invitation<\/h3>\n

Let your host know on the spot whether or not you\u2019re able to attend. If you aren\u2019t sure, let them know that you need to check your schedule, but do get back to them as soon as possible.<\/p>\n

Regrets only RSVP<\/span><\/h3>\n

This means that your host is planning for you to be there, unless he or she hears otherwise. Usually this type of RSVP is reserved for events with more than 250 guests, such as fundraisers or corporate events, where keeping track of attendees would be a Herculean effort. In this case, you need only worry about a response if you\u2019re sure you cannot attend.<\/p>\n

Electronic invitation<\/h3>\n

These days, invitations are often sent through sites like evite.com or via a Facebook event. You have the option to select \u201cyes\u201d, \u201cno\u201d or \u201cmaybe\u201d (and may have the option to include the number of guests attending). Be sure to follow up later if you select \u201cmaybe,\u201d so the hosts can have enough refreshments and favors on hand.<\/p>\n

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Emailed invitation<\/h3>\n

If it\u2019s a personal invitation to an event like a bridal shower or birthday party, hit the reply button. For suggestions on how to craft a response, see below.<\/p>\n

How to RSVP by email<\/b><\/p>\n

When you get an email invitation, you\u2019ll want to respond with a more thoughtful message than just \u201cyes\u201d or \u201cno.\u201d If you\u2019re close friends with the host, you can respond in a more fun, casual way. If it\u2019s a formal or professional event, you may want to be more official in your response.<\/p>\n

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Template for accepting an invitation<\/strong><\/p>\n

Hi [Name],<\/i><\/p>\n

Thank you for inviting me to [event]! I will be attending and have marked the date on my calendar.<\/i><\/p>\n

I really look forward to [personalize]. See you on [date].<\/i><\/p>\n

Sincerely,<\/i><\/p>\n

[Signature]<\/i><\/p>\n

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Formal template for declining an invitation<\/strong><\/p>\n

Hi [Name],<\/i><\/p>\n

Thank you for your invitation to [event] on [date]. Unfortunately, I will not be able to attend the event.<\/i><\/p>\n

I appreciate your invitation and hope to have the opportunity to attend next year.<\/i><\/p>\n

Sincerely,<\/i><\/p>\n

[Signature]<\/i><\/p>\n

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Informal template for declining an invitation<\/b><\/p>\n

Hi [Name],<\/i><\/p>\n

Thanks so much for inviting me to [event]! Unfortunately, I\u2019m busy on [date] and won\u2019t be able to make it.<\/i><\/p>\n

Really sad to miss [personalize] Let\u2019s catch up soon!<\/i><\/p>\n

Best,<\/i><\/p>\n

[Signature]<\/i><\/p>\n

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No RSVP requested<\/h3>\n

If you receive an invitation without an RSVP, <\/span>you\u2019re<\/span> not <\/span>obligated<\/span> to reply. However, you may wish to drop the hosts <\/span>a short note<\/span> to thank them for the invitation and let them know <\/span>if you<\/span> you<\/span> will be attending.<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Changing your RSVP<\/h3>\n

It is impolite to change your RSVP for other social plans. If an emergency arises, let the host know that you can\u2019t make it as soon as possible.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

If you were unsure whether you could attend or you RSVP\u2019d \u201cno,\u201d but later discovered you could make it, communicate that with the host. They may be able to accommodate a \u201cmaybe\u201d or add you to the party late.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Sources:<\/b><\/p>\n

The Spruce (1<\/a>,2<\/a>) | LinkedIn<\/a> | Woculus<\/a> | Manners Mentor<\/a> | Emily Post<\/a> | WhoWhatWear<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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